I’m *** in avery bad society(arab country)?

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ramii asked:

when i was child . I lived with my mother and grandmother. My father was travel all the time . I spent my time with girls and i liked to play with girls toys like Barbei and i grow up with girls i didnt have too much boyz in my life then my father and mother broke up when i was 10 yrs and i have one sister and she is younger than me in 7 yrs . my father **** my mother because he said that she is cheat him and she is not but he said alot of time that we must dont talk with her . when i was 10 yr my father take me and my sister to UAE where he work and my mother was in syria that time and we live with him and with my dad new wife and we wanna to see our mother but he refused . and we live with him for 7 years in UAE and that area where we lived like desert call ( liwa oasis ) and there are few people so I dont know any girl there when i’m in the teenager I feel so sad and disapointted all the time and i spent all my time alone he was watch us all the time if we wanna to call our mother on the phone or not .She call us and he dont let us to answer her ,and in liwa oasis I have a freind and he said to me what about going and have *** together and I went with him to try this feeling and i liked it .then i search on the internet about gays but i cant date anybody there because religion and society . now we return to syria our mother land and i saw my mother without he know and i told her that I’m *** and i missed her so much . Now i dont have trust in my father and even my mother I dont have trust in people and in my self . amd i feel so shy sad all the time . I’m an artist and i study in fine arts university in damascus . and finaly i told my dad that i’m know seeing my mother and he fight me . And told my mother that I’m *** , here in syria i date men and have *** every week with men but I feel sham and bad inside ( what i can do ) please help me …….



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4 Responses to 'I’m *** in avery bad society(arab country)?'

  1. Jonathan - February 28th, 2010 at 9:50 pm

    you can decide that your life is yours to live, your dad should either accept who you are or clear out, now I know that’s easier said then done, also it sounds as if though your kind of a slut, unless of course you have *** with the same man every week, I guess you could also try to alter your lifestyle just a little bit and see whether your dad would be okay with that.

    Also, why don’t you just stay in damascus?

  2. Saxxeman L - March 1st, 2010 at 7:18 am

    be true to yourself because you only have one life enjoy it.

  3. Luka - March 4th, 2010 at 12:05 am

    Woah, you’re pretty fucked up dude.

    Get the **** out of your community and move elsewhere.

  4. Sarah - March 7th, 2010 at 4:14 am

    First off, you should know that there is nothing bad or shameful about being ***. A lot of people are; even a lot of animals engage in some kind of ********** activities, so it can hardly be called unnatural. What makes you feel bad is that you’ve accepted your culture’s unthinking **** of homosexuality, and you should reject such hatred, understanding that it has no basis in reality.

    Hopefully, if you look around (carefully though!), you’ll be able to find other homosexuals at University to share your concerns and learn more about yourself from. It’s more likely than elsewhere, for various reasons. As you’ve discovered with Yahoo Answers, you’ll also find information and some sympathetic ears on the internet. While it would be a great idea to join a GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender) club and/or find a *** bar you like going to, it (sadly) is less likely that you’ll find such places in a country like Syria, though they do exist.

    The most important thing you can do is to accept and love yourself, because as I’ve said, being *** is neither wrong nor shameful. Second most importantly, it sounds like your father attacked you; am I right? It would be a good idea to stay away from him, as much as possible. Better yet, finish your degree and immigrate to somewhere in western Europe if you can come up with the money; it’s a much more tolerant society and you can probably earn a better living there, too.


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